Graffiti in public toilets used to serve a useful purpose. When you moved to a new town you could go for a quick wee and find out a concise run down of who was a good root, who was a bad root and who should be avoided. It's a damned shame that this service is now so lacking. I suggest we re-instate this tradition. If it were still in place, I would not have slept with Passenger Nine. All the local women know, of course, because they have all slept with him too...but was there some kind of written warning? No. And men like this take advantage of the lack of toilet graffiti, and who can blame them?
It's true, some of the local men tried to warn me, but sadly, it was the very same men who were hitting on me and failing so how could I believe them? Especially when he swore blind he was not like that (and who wants to believe negative things about someone who is good in bed? Really?)
And as he said - he REALLY liked me, REALLY...he just didn't feel comfortable with public displays of affection (around other women he might want to sleep with) or being in phone contact during the week, after all he was a busy, busy man (busy with other women) and he didn't feel right putting a name on it like girlfriend / boyfriend, we were just getting to know each other, but he wasn't sleeping "with any other woman" (Nope, he was sleeping with many other WOMEN). Turn up somewhere just because he said he would see me there? That was asking a bit much wasn't it? Turning up with another woman to a date? Why not? After all, we weren't a COUPLE. Besides, he hadn't chosen her over me. Yeah, she was his GIRLFRIEND, but that didn't mean he preferred her to me...or any of the others...
Starting to get the picture? Time to go on The Bus, sunshine. And any ladies considering moving to Daylesford, please PM me for your own personal "public toilet" warning.
The follow up?
I have spoken with numerous women who have slept with / are sleeping with Casanova since I stopped seeing him and they all agree - THEY are the one he REALLY cares about, the others don't mean ANYTHING.
On one night I ran into him out with a female friend of mine I knew he was sleeping with. Lets call her Woman A. I asked how they were getting on and his reply? "I'm not with her! What has she told you?"
Me: "Well, that you are sleeping together"
Casanova: "Well, yeah. But I'm not WITH her, I'm with Woman B!"
I was pretty offended on my friend's behalf to find that he would say this when they were clearly out together and later I discussed it with her.
"Oh, that's not the half of it." She tells me. "He went home with Woman C that night."
The sad part? Women A, B and C and many, many more will keep sleeping with Casanova because he tells them up front that it is not a relationship, and so they can't really expect him to be faithful to them. Personally, I don't need to be in a relationship to require basic levels of respect from a man. And by the way if you are the one he REALLY cares about...then why isn't he caring about you?
As for the poor woman he has actually named as his "girlfriend". Honey, expect an on again, off again thing. Because Casanova Tom Cat will not be able to keep it in his pants, never has, never will, and sadly, there are just too many ladies out there that will go behind your back because they can.
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